If you are dealing with pain right now, don't worry about trying to answer all the questions that come to your mind. Somehow, in some ways, people hurt us though they are not even aware of it. Maybe I could feel heaps better if they realized their shortcomings, but it would be a waste to let them know it.

I have read numerous articles regarding forgiveness. The very significant thing I learned from this was....when you forgive someone who gave you pain emotionally, you also must totally forget that hurt. How could you give glory to that pain when the person who hurted you was never even bothered to know its true meaning? Does it mean that I have to pretend I have gotten away with it? Would it make me a lesser person if I did not get over it? 

I"m not gonna give my own analysis of those people who easily forgive and forget. Sometimes, it's pointless to try to make someone understand why you like what you like. Time is the only remedy to solve all emotionally based problems and we can all attest to that…I can attest to that…by all means, give it a try…..JEANNIEBUGS